THE NATURAL
WAY TO CHANGE BEHAVIOURS -ONE SMALL STEP AT A TIME
Einstein said that insanity is doing the
same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
The paradox is that, very often, the more
we want change and the harder we push to force change, the less it happens. So
why is this?
As human beings our default setting is
stability, not change. The body
constantly works to maintain a state of ‘Homeostasis’ which is the tendency of the body to seek and
maintain a condition of balance or equilibrium within its internal environment,
even when faced with external changes. A
simple example of this is
the body's ability to maintain its own internal temperature regardless of the
temperature outside.
The unconscious mind is no different and even
though our conscious mind may desire change, the unconscious will resist,
seeking homeostasis.
But, because we live in a rapidly changing
technical world, we expect the opposite - to be able to change just as rapidly
and just as dramatically – which is the wrong approach.
Look at the cycle of change from new born
baby to adult, far from being rapid and dramatic, it is almost unnoticeably
slow.
But we
need to get going - just one small step at a time!
I already hear the cries of ‘that will take
too long’, but surely a longer, successful journey is better than a short failed
one? And as the improvement is
incremental, every day is better than the last. Success is coming in small
daily bites.
That small, daily activity becomes a habit;
the habit becomes a behaviour; change has happened and been established.
This principle can be applied to any aspect
or area of your life or business and those small incremental changes lead to
enormous outcomes.
By understanding, and working with, the
brain we can achieve so much more.
We can help you to apply this principle to
change in any area of your life or business. To find out more contact: Terri Codd MCF - Corporate Training & Life Coach:
076 751 3556: coddterri@gmail.com:
terricodd.blogspot.com
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